Screening Women For Long Term Dating Potential – The Joe vs The Gentleman

Imagine two men about town. One, the Average Joe. Joe is college educated, fairly successful in his career, has his own transportation and a place to call his own. He’s now looking to share his adventure with a lovely young lady. The second, we’ll call The Gentleman. The Gentleman is Average Joe’s co-worker. Both are…

5 Ways a Professional Dating Service Can Revolutionize Your Life

Dating Advisor at Personal Dating Assistants
Beyond Borders is a writer and personal dating advisor who spends his time in the world's more rugged places, seeking adventure, chasing girls, and making questionable decisions whenever possible. He's a bit rough around the edges but has been known to take breaks from living life full throttle and surprise readers with the occasional wisdom bomb.
Beyond Borders

“More dates on tap? Hell, sign me up!” That’s what most guys say when they hear it’s possible to outsource their “lead-generation” and get a professional dating service connecting them with new women. But there’s more to it then that. This isn’t just a fun new toy to play with – we’ve seen time and…

7 Deadly Sins of Online Dating Profiles for Men

Vincent Winters is armed with an insatiable hunger for knowledge, a zest for life and an entrepreneurial spirit, he has embarked on a quest to escape his old 9-5 lifestyle. In his travels, valuable lessons have been learnt in alluring the opposite sex, he hopes he can inspire you with his words.
Vincent Winters

Do you remember the old saying, you only get 1 chance to make a first impression?  Well when it comes to online dating profiles for men, this saying is golden.  Not following this advice, and you might as well be following the golden calf. Just like dressing up in a sharp Anine Bing Tee before an…

How to Get More Dates Without Stepping Foot in a Bar

Dating Advisor at Personal Dating Assistants
Beyond Borders is a writer and personal dating advisor who spends his time in the world's more rugged places, seeking adventure, chasing girls, and making questionable decisions whenever possible. He's a bit rough around the edges but has been known to take breaks from living life full throttle and surprise readers with the occasional wisdom bomb.
Beyond Borders

You remember the days…night after night on the town. On the prowl and chasing women. Those oh-so-juicy drunken decisions and then the brutal hangovers that followed. It was a blast, yeah, but you’re more grown up than that now. You have a career and a reputation to preserve. And too many nights out can quickly…

“If He’s Such A Catch, Why Does He Need an Online Dating Profile?”

Vincent Winters is armed with an insatiable hunger for knowledge, a zest for life and an entrepreneurial spirit, he has embarked on a quest to escape his old 9-5 lifestyle. In his travels, valuable lessons have been learnt in alluring the opposite sex, he hopes he can inspire you with his words.
Vincent Winters

It is an undeniable truth this is a question that is frequently thought by women. By clarifying this within your profile or initial message you have covered an important base and will drastically increase your replies. Here are some essential tips on how to do exactly that…   Are you new to the area? Draw…

Copy & Paste is for Robots: How to Craft the Best Online Dating Messages for Flesh & Blood Women

Dating Advisor at Personal Dating Assistants
Beyond Borders is a writer and personal dating advisor who spends his time in the world's more rugged places, seeking adventure, chasing girls, and making questionable decisions whenever possible. He's a bit rough around the edges but has been known to take breaks from living life full throttle and surprise readers with the occasional wisdom bomb.
Beyond Borders

It’s all you can do, right? You know how thirsty guys are these days. Women get hit on enough in public as it is, but take it to the far-reaching internet, and suddenly they’re inundated with hundreds or thousands of online dating messages from guys telling them they’re amazing. In fact, many women just come…

Meeting Girls Online – Without Looking Desperate

Dating Advisor at Personal Dating Assistants
Beyond Borders is a writer and personal dating advisor who spends his time in the world's more rugged places, seeking adventure, chasing girls, and making questionable decisions whenever possible. He's a bit rough around the edges but has been known to take breaks from living life full throttle and surprise readers with the occasional wisdom bomb.
Beyond Borders

Meeting girls online for dates can feel like a sucker move sometimes. Yeah, times have changed and it doesn’t have the stigma it used to. But let’s face it, women like men who have options. And turning to the world wide web for dates doesn’t always feel like the strategy of a guy who’s drowning in…

How to Meet Women Online In Person

Personal Dating Assistant at Personal Dating Assistants
Matthew Valentines is an online dating concierge, and executive director at Personal Dating Assistants.

An attraction technologist at heart, he travels the world in search of beautiful women, new ways to help men with their online dating, and the perfect single malt whiskey.

His column runs Tuesdays.
Matthew Valentines

So you’ve been sending messages on Okcupid, Tinder, and Match.com. You’re ready to learn how to meet women online in person…but what’s your pitch?   The Pitch   When making your in-person pitch, mind your vernacular.  The word “date” has built in expectations that men & women get hung up on.  A date implies courtship.…

Why Men Should Never Text Girls First

Personal Dating Assistant at Personal Dating Assistants
Matthew Valentines is an online dating concierge, and executive director at Personal Dating Assistants.

An attraction technologist at heart, he travels the world in search of beautiful women, new ways to help men with their online dating, and the perfect single malt whiskey.

His column runs Tuesdays.
Matthew Valentines

Here’s a contradiction for you: women say they prefer it when a guy calls. The inconvenient caveat, is this only applies to guys she’s already very interested in. It’s a catch 22.  Particularly when you’re trying to make it happen with a girl you’ve only met online.   Text Girls VS Phonecall Girls Here at Personal…