Are you still holding off on digging your hands into the wonderful world of meeting women over the internet?
For a guy who spends a lot of time running around and doesn’t have the liberty of heading out a few times a week to meet members of the opposite sex, it seems like a no-brainer. Yet, we still constantly meet men who refuse to embrace modern social norms because of out-dated, misinformed online dating stigmas.
Let’s look at a few of the online dating myths – one of these might be the reason you’ve been spending your nights off eating dinner in front of the TV.
Myth #1: It’s for Losers Who Can’t Get Dates
Not at all.
Take a look around you, and what do you see? That’s right – every face buried in a smartphone.
Online dating is nothing more than an extension of our new wired-in lifestyles, and the guys who really pull well off the internet are cutting-edge trend-setters who embrace modern technology to get what they want.
Many have learned to turn it into a constant stream of dates and casual sexual encounters that they can keep churning from the comfort of their living room couches. Nice.
Furthermore, pulling leads off the internet saves the hassle and health destruction of hitting the meat markets for drinks every weekend.
This is smart dating.
Myth #2: There Are No Beautiful Women Online
Just like with men, you find all types online, and beautiful women are just as varied in their dating preferences as less attractive women are.
In fact, the top-notch girls who make their money off their looks (models, aspiring actresses, etc) are usually the most active on social media because they have to market themselves. Turning to the dating sites for romance sometimes becomes a natural extension of that.
You get women who just want to try something new, women who are fed up with meeting men at bars, women who are too busy for something else, women who just want an adventure, women who don’t like men in their area, women who want judgment-free sex, and the list goes on…
Myth #3: It’s Easy Pickings
An extension of the idea that there are no hot women online is the idea that if you’re a good-looking guy, you’ll clean house. Maybe. But if you think mating dynamics are skewed in favor of women in the real world, well, you ain’t seen nothing yet…
Since it takes no real risk to send a message over the web, attractive women get bombarded constantly.
If you had a look at their inboxes, which are sometimes swamped in a hundred messages per day, you can quickly see where the next myth comes from…
Myth #4: There’s No Way to Stand Out
Thanks to women having all the leverage online, it sure seems that way sometimes. If you’ve tried your hand at online dating, you might have found that even above average girls rarely answer back. And if they do, they fade out of the conversation fast. Refer to Myth #4.
But here’s the thing.
Most guys just aren’t very original. And by putting a little effort into your profile, crafting clever openers that get attention, and using a few time-tested techniques to hold that attention you can stay way ahead of the game.
We’ve got the knowledge it takes to help you do all of that.
Myth #5: Only Good-Looking Guys Do Well Online
Guys who know what they’re doing and have a plan of action can kill it too – just like you see plain men in the real world who always have a dime on their arm.
Of course, you should always look your best: that means knowing how to dress, getting started on a workout plan if you don’t have one already, and getting some nice photos taken to put yourself in the best light.
Also, don’t forget that women are often looking for radically different things in a man.
Myth #6: It Takes Too Much Time
It can take time, yes.
Filling out profiles, scouring the sites for women you like, sending out a bunch of messages only to get a few back that you can work with, and then the back and forth…you might quickly start wondering why you ever thought it was a good solution for a busy man in the first place.
But we’ve got an answer for you there too…
Outsource your online dating.
By getting our team managing the virtual side of your love life, you can focus on work and just show up when it’s game-time.
Sound like a plan?
Get in touch today and let’s talk more.
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